**I just have to say...I have tried 3 times to break this down into paragraphs, but Blogger isn't letting me do it! Sorry for the jumbled mess of a post!** Turns out, my kids and story hour just don't mesh. Doesn't matter if the story hour is one where the kids can
be a little loud, or one in which they are expected to be silent (pfft). I think the county library does an excellent job with their story hour. They have just the right amount of sitting and listening to stories, and in between the stories, they sing a couple of silly songs, with hand motions, just to get the kids moving (because you know they want to be moving). When we first moved here, Ryan was 2 1/2. I took him to the library for story hour, really more for myself to get out of the house than him. Ryan was a rather shy child at the age of 2 1/2, and he had absolutely NO interest in singing or clapping (even though he loved music and knew all the songs they were singing). He sat beside me with a grumpy look on his face the whole time. After the stories are read and songs are sung, they pull out a few bins of toys and let the kids have at them. Ryan loved that part. He played well with the other kids and had a great time. I thought, "This is great!" I went back a second time, and the only thing Ryan wanted to do was to play with the toys. He let everyone know it. I had to leave the story hour room because he was SCREAMING that he didn't want to listen to the story, he wanted to play with the TOYS! Wow. I thought it was perhaps a bad day or something, so I went back
one more time. Same thing happened...again. Goodbye library story hour...we were never coming back. Barnes and Noble also has a story hour for the kids. At this story hour, they read 2 or 3 stories, have some *stretching* time in between, and maybe sing a song. They do, however, seem to be rather strict about kids being quiet (which, I understand that they want everyone to be able to hear, but a little whispering among two and three year old children is quite normal). I thought we would try that to see if it was any better. We made it through the first time, and rather than pulling out bins of toys...there was a Thomas train table to play with in the children's area. Ryan LOVED the train table. He couldn't SEE the train table from where the story hour was, so I thought we would go back. Guess what happened (I should have guessed what would happen, too...but I didn't). We sat down to listen to the stories and Ryan immediately asked about the trains. He got louder and louder until I could no longer justify sitting and ignoring his behavior. We got up, went over to the trains, and all was well. That was the end of the Barnes and Noble story hour for Ryan, though. No amount of Dr. Suess could compete with that train table. Fast forward a year and a half and it was Ella's turn to try out story hour. I
started with the Barnes and Noble story hour with her. We dropped Ryan off at preschool at 9:00, and went to Barnes and Noble for the 9:30 start time. She sat still for about 0.2 seconds. She got up on the *stage* where the lady reads the books (which did not go over well with said lady). I believe she actually gave me the stink eye. It wasn't like I didn't go after her and get her down. Sheesh! So...we sat back down, for about another 0.2 seconds (maybe it was 0.3, I don't really remember), and Ella was up again...this time taking books off of the shelves. OK...point taken, lady with the stink eye. Goodbye Barnes and Noble story hour for Ella. She never even got to experience the train table. I didn't really want to bother with the library story hour, but I figured that perhaps if there were no other distractions (there isn't really anything IN the room at the library) that perhaps we could make it work. Besides, a good friend of mine was going there with her boys and I wanted to meet her there. Turns out, Ella did wonderfully. Her first time, her second time...and so on...until today. The library usually does about a 6 week session of their story hours and then they take a little break. We didn't go back right away after the break, so it had been awhile since we had gone. Ella sat through the stories, and she even played for a bit with the toys. It's hard to tell sometimes, because Ella is a tall girl, but based on their sizes and speaking abilities...Ella definitely seemed to be one of the oldest, today. I was watching a little 14 month old girl climb into one of the mini chairs, and was holding on to the chair for fear that she would flip it over (as her mother wasn't exactly rushing over to help...and I'm not judging...she just really didn't seem as concerned about it as I was). I sort of missed the whole interaction, but Ella came over to me with a ball and was being closely followed by another little girl and her mother. I had seen the little girl playing with the ball, so my guess was that Ella had taken it (the frown on her face kind of gave it away, too). At any rate...I took the ball from Ella and explained that it isn't nice to take toys from others, and I handed it back to the other little girl. Well, my little red-headed toddler stomped away from me and screamed at the top of her lungs, "You're the worstest, Mommy!" I didn't flinch, because I hear this often from her (
she is 2 1/2). I realize, the behavior was not appropriate, but I'm not exaggerating when I say that ALL of the Moms in the room (and I think they are pretty much regulars there, as I have seen some of them before) stopped and stared at me. I calmly walked across the room to my daughter, who was standing in the corner of the room with her arms folded across her chest, and I got down on her level to tell her (quietly, but sternly) that she was not to talk to Mommy that way (just as I do EVERY time she does it). Still...the Moms are staring. We walked back across the room and picked up a few toys that she had been playing with and put them away, then we got her coat on and walked out the door. Goodbye, library story hour (perhaps not for good...but for right now). Really, though. I could have done without the staring Moms. ALL of them had either infants or children who appeared to be under the age of 2 (perhaps I was at the wrong story hour time? Nope. It is for ages 0-3). I *really* wanted to turn around on my way out of the door and say "Just wait...your time is coming." You know you have wanted to say it before, too. When your child is throwing a tantrum at Target, or in the middle of the grocery store, or at some other place when there are a lot of people to look around and judge your parenting. Mine just happen to do it at story hour...where it is especially quiet. Oy.